Q: My girlfriend keeps buying all these sex toys, and sometimes I get the feeling she prefers them over me. I guess that’s fine since she’s having fun. But my question is: Would all these mechanical replacements make her less sensitive to something more mundane, per se, my penis to the point where she won’t enjoy having sex with me anymore?
A: That’s a good question. Once again, we drew on the health professionals at SexHerald to help you out:
“First of all, don’t feel bad your girlfriend is ga-ga over all the latest contraptions that have been invented for her pussy. Like you said, she’s just having fun. As for her nether parts being desensitized to good old-fashioned sex is another story. And my answer is: It depends. If you want to have sex with her right after she’s had a good go at it with either the Rabbit or a Hitachi Magic Wand or both, then yes her area down there is going to be a little desensitized, or she may just be fully sated and is not in the mood for more. But if you’re worried about long-term effects, there’s no need to worry. Depending on the level of her sex drive, she’ll just need 30 minutes to a day before she may feel the hunger again. The resiliency of humans is an amazing thing.
If you constantly feel left out of her sex-toy trysts, you can try to be more active by going sex-toy shopping with her and getting non-penetrative toys for the BOTH of you to try out so that you and your johnson won’t feel obsolete.”
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