The Cold Shoulder

The Cold Shoulder is a great position for when you and your partner are sitting outside enjoying a cool fall night wrapped in a blanket.  Find a sturdy chair with a seat that will fit both of you without arms and a short back.  If you are the receiver, your partner should sit down in the chair first, straddling the seat with the back of the seat facing him/her.  Then you sit on your partner’s lap.  Here is the twist: dangle your legs off the back of the chair instead of straddling the seat like your partner.  Then rock away, not literally of course.  The blanket comes in handy for privacy.  Make sure it’s big enough to cover all the appropriate areas.  Take it from me, it ruins the moment when you’re in a good rhythm and a blast of cold air floats into the blanket and over exposed body parts.